Hi SC, so after the bravado and standing your ground, HOW will you really feel if he turns up either alone or with g/f? A) could you cope with that really B) are you just calling his bluff
IMO I think its great that you are ready to stand your ground. Would there be any legal reasons that prevents you-ie agreements already drawn up and please be sure this is not a cutting off your nose situation,ie would the emotional pain it gives you to be there if/when he comes with g/f in tow,be greater than the one upmanship. Just something to consider and I do understand how you feel about that house. Wonder what he'll reply.
