Mike...come on....do share your thoughts. You know BBJ will appreciate it as we all need your VOR every now and then! \:\)

BBJ - you are an amazingly strong woman. Your H has NO CLUE whatsoever! Your kids are voicing their feelings, your H will think what he wants about it. I think you are absolutely right not to lie to the kids about why daddy isn't there and not accepting this as a joint decision. It definitely wasn't your decision.

Keep on keeping on!

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!