I have no idea how I can find anything out about the OM, particularly as in my early amateur snooping days, I was continulay caught to the point where my wife has re-directed all her cell phone bills and any other post to her parents house. She was clearly at OM's last night as the bed had not been slept in etc, but no amount of investigation by me has found zip in 5 months because she assumes I snoop even when I go around the house to pick up some bits.
My only way ahead that I can see is to follow the advice I have been given as I cannot influence or find out anyhing about my W's OM.
Last edited by markhaving probs; 05/13/0901:00 PM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years