WAW1 - Anticipation

[markhaving probs]

Hi Julia,

It's great to hear from you. The job front is still a real drag and depressing. I have gone back to the doctors to get some tablets today to help me.

Thank you for looking in, yes PM said not look into the photo thing too much. I cannot believe she did it out of spite, I just think this has lost her sense of perspective and logic, and we know why.

You are right in regard to my willingness to be pushed into things. It has been said before by many qualified posters and the reason is I did not want to upset my wife for fear of pushing her past the point of no return. As davidswife said to me awhile ago, what difference does it make SHE IS DIVORCING YOU ANYWAY.

I am 99% certain she is in a PA now as I had my son and she did not stay at the house last night. The only reason I mention something I do not have any control over is my mindset. As a friend said to me 'believe' she is in an affair, would you deal with finances, childrens affairs etc any diffently? I must admit it did make me think I would be a lot firmer with her and not act like a wuss trying not to upset her.

I am going to take gucciloafers advice on my 'dropping the rope' thread in Newcomers, as he has given me advice on dealing with my W but not becoming spiteful etc.

I am going to get some advice from CAB as she is attempting to get me to do something that she cannot enforce.

It does make me think though that this negativity and speed to divorce means she has settled on a new life for her and the children.

I am going to take the children (dependant on weather)this Saturday to the Spectrum in Guilford which is a posh swimming pool, wave machine etc or tennis. They have a trampolining lesson at 4.00pm.

Sunday, we have a school fete at my sons school, so we have the weekend pretty much sorted out. Thank you for asking.