Tia is absolutely right. In most cases it is usually best not to pressure your spouse into reading marriage-saving books, watching marriage-saving DVD's, etc. Hoping that your spouse will read a book or watch a DVD and 'see the light' does not usually work. And it can sometimes push them further away.
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