The adventure continues--the saga

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Your W has issues

YES SHE DOES!!! She told me that the week OM was gone after she kicked him out initially that she was physically sick and lost 8 lbs. I said now you know how I've felt for 3 months. She said, I don't believe you've really forgiven me and else you wouldn't be holding it over my head. I said I have forgiven you but you're still doing it!!!

Even when the custody of her daughter is being considered and is in jeopardy she still refuses to stop seeing the OM.

Yeah, this one I don't understand. She wants access to D yet she left her. She said I need to spend time w/ D. I asked her why she didn't spend time w/ D when I was gone? She said I did. I said that's funny, you told me that you barely spent any time w/ her and she says the same thing.

You have actually done too much and given her many outs and treated her way too nice

I know but my attitude is starting to transition to mean. I would love to find the OM and beat the piss out of him at this point.

did you pack her stuff and arrange for her to p/u? Change locks? Let her know she is not welcome in your house whenever she wants?

No, I haven't packed her stuff. All she has are little odds and ends here and there, nothing big. I took away all her keys and garage door openers--she has no access to the house. She rings the doorbell every time. Funny, at one point she said she needed a key for emergencies. I said what type of emergency? She said, you know in case there's a fire. I said, the house is insured. She said what if D can't get out? I said, D is 13, I'm sure she's old enough to get out and if you were that concerned you wouldn't be doing what you're doing so no, you won't be getting a key to the house.

When you get solid proof expose through your commander. Have her served at work, ask for everything to include custody, add that no unrelated males will be in the apartment when your daughter visits. Fl will consider her affairs when deciding custody...

I still intend to expose her--the only out for her now is to come home. My CC told me that if she agrees to come home, all I have to do is come tell him that the conversation I had w/ him was a misunderstanding.

She will not get kicked out because of this although she deserves to be demoted...her actions are not what any good CC wants in the SNCO corps. I am shocked that now she seems to be concerned about her career...what did she think was going to happen? Just curious but has this ever come up when you talk?

Agreed. She has never mentioned this before. I've only known about OM and affairs a little more than 3 weeks now. She is talking about going in the Guard now. I think if exposed and the fact that an investigation is started will severly hurt her chances of going into the Guard--thoughts on this Hoop?

Do not let her threaten you...

Yeah, I couldn't believe it when she did it based on what she's done. I still can't believe it. Amazing stuff, isn't it?