Thanks for the post; not quite sure what you mean though? Sorry! I know that hard work is necessary; yes, there have been times in our marriage when I have put my work first etc. But I have been committed to my marriage. Yes, i have made monumental changes since my H walked, and I am becoming a better person, day by day, because of these changes. But in the end, he has a right to choose not to see them or not. Or if he does he has a right to choose whether they affect/concern him or not. I know that I could have done some things better but he has shown his lack of commitment at the end of the day.
