"This shook him to the very core and you could see him struggling in his mind over this. He even went so far as to tell me that I had thrown something out there that he never contemplated. That maybe it was me that needed to change. The next day however, I was right back to my nagging. Telling him how he should feel and how I was right and what he felt was wrong. Not exactly changing my behavior was I? This cemented in his mind that he had to go. Me pleading, begging, and crying further cemented this. It was all about how he was making me feel."
1st point.
How did you know he was "struggling in his mind over this.".. you knew it before he said anything?
"It was all about how he was making me feel."
It always is. For him too by the way.. he is just acting on it. He is acting on it in a way that is unacceptable to you.
This shook you to the very core. Yes I used your words.
How can 2 people that have very different perspectives.. shake each others core?
"I typed that before I found out about the other woman."
Is this a deal breaker? Simple yes or no will do.
"I do wish him happiness."
Explain this some more. Give your best "Emotional" response that you can.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
