So true. I am similiar to him though in the broken promises of change department. I said I would change and meant it... time and time again. But this was my wake up call and I am wide awake.
The thing is.. I take 100% of the blame for the things that I needed to change about me and didn't when I had the chance. But I take 0% of the blame for all of the things that she didn't change and all of her broken promises. I also don't and won't accept that I pushed her into OM's arms... bed.. etc.. LOL. She had a choice... GET OUT OF THE MARRIAGE... DIV.. and then do it.. or do it the way she did.. and thats what she choose. No different that me and the choices I made with my sexual addicitions. It's about choices... you make them and sometimes you have to pay the consequences. If my behavior cost me my marriage then I have to live with that. She has to live any future consequences of her infidelity.
