I think she is the same way. I told her the other night that the kids.. the oldest 2 had told me that since she left.. when she has them.. that she is spending no QTime with them. She is always on her cellphone or the computer and won't let them get near her. I wondering what she is doing or who she is talking too... DUH.. I know. Not me!
I told her what they said and I told her I didn't wanna get into what she was or wasn't doing; but that they were my children too and that if she was doing that she needed to stop... and needed to pay attention to them and love them in this tough time - especially since they openly are pissed at her.
Guess what... tonight.. kids said same thing.. that she is still on the cellphone or computer and hasn't changed.. surprise surprise.. ya know..