I don't know why I need this to happen in order to initate my changing ALOT of things but I did and now I am changing.
I read in Rick Warrens book about God's Power to Change your life.. that most people really want to change but they feel they can't maybe even feel they will fail so they don't even try.... But that once people are enduring pain... and the options are PAIN or Change... they choose change. I found that offensive because it was TOTALLY me!! LOL.
What my WAW doesn't get is that the change is happening and it's long term .. not short term and I told her the other night that her husband was changing ... her kids her changing and the life she wanted forever is forever changing and now she is not a part of it... so... blah..... for her!