Yep, I agree patients is the key. Maybe focus on taking one brick out of his wall at a time. We all have learned plowing through a brick wall just doesn't work.
Brian the snail, probably has much more to think about now more than ever.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)