Thanks! Me too. I talked to her Best Friend (female) the other day; well I don't know how long they will remain that way. My wife of course has shut her out and had not been honest about the OM with her. We both cried and said that this was not the ***** (wifes name) that we both know..
And thats just it... she isnt the same person anymore. Instead of change for the good she has changed for the bad. So what am I gonna do? Change for the good and at that point I may realize that I don't need or want her mess anymore.
I am going to try hard to not initiate contact with her. Limit it to ONLY when I need to deal with something with the kids. No more of this... I miss you ... don't you wanna talk. Makes me wanna hurl... when I think about how I must have looked to her.
No matter what I am gonna be a better father and a better man for all of this.. and some woman... my wife or other down the road is gonna be SOOOOOO lucky that they get a man like me that has truly EVOLVED!!
