*CLAPPING* Bravo! Keep this post available for the days when it's not so easy and you start questioning yourself. You are going to need it because if nothing else you are going to need to prepare yourself for one hell of a ride! So far, so good though! I would like to adopt your saying if I may?

So he wants to play a game... well baby I am the gamemaster. First up... NEW ME... Second up... MOVING ON... and if he doesn't do a 180 himself... batting 3rd will be GAME OVER.

You and I can only fix ourselves. We are not the only ones who did things wrong in the relationship and if there is to be a relationship at all, both parties are going to have to do some changing and growing. I hope your wife gets this!


"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."