Thanks... definetly not easy. I spent the first 4 weeks of our seperation basically begging her to stop seeing him so that we could have a dignified seperation and divorce if that's what it came too.
LOL
What a WUSS.
You know it's me time... it's time for me to be daddy of the year and get back the bravado that I had when she met me. She got so turned on by how confident that I was. The first time I asked her out ... I said... So... when are we going out and she laughed and I said .. no really... when..? And it was on from there.
I have read in markhavingprobs - drop the rope... and I get something LOUD and clear right now... She is DEEP into an emotional and sexual (admitted) affair right now ... has told me that she loves him and that if I had treated her better that she never would have strayed. Well you know what? I deserve better!
So she wants to play a game... well baby I am the gamemaster. First up... NEW ME... Second up... MOVING ON... and if she doesn't do a 180 herself... batting 3rd will be GAME OVER.
I know everyday I won't be as confident as today but today I am feeling it. As a family member of mine said... kill her with kindness bombs and move on.
