Yep you really have to get up and do. Nothing comes to those who wait. Once you start taking an active role things will start to get better.
There is no think there is only do or not..... Yoda said that in Star Wars but I'll bet it comes from somewhere else. Pick something that gets you out of the house and around some people or friends.
From what you have written so far this issue lies with your husband. Don't hold on to the blame and find things about yourself that you would like to be different!
