I have to admit that it is probably easier for me in that I don't have any contact what so ever with my husband. Whether this is good or bad remains to be seen. I don't feel that me being around while he is so confused is good for either of us. He will eventually realize that OW is not someone he can have anything with long term because even though she validates his feelings and they go to concerts and stuff together. She has her own issues and they really do not have that much in common. He felt that we were so different, but if he took an honest look he would realize that we have very, very similar interests. One day he will run into me or find me again and he will see that I was able to do the very thing he is so scared to do and that is change and grow.
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
