I gotcha. I went to an attorney last October, but haven't filed yet. He explained to me both ends of the D spectrum....it could be a couple thousand if we agreed on everything, or mega-bucks if we had to fight it out.
I know it isn't easy, I just feel like she is jerking you around and that ticks me off....you are too good a guy for that. Problem is she knows that and uses it against you!