Hi! I have been over in MLC for almost two years. H was coming and going for a year and a half. I finally couldnt take it anymore and told him if he wants to leave, he needs to do it. He left for good in March. Ow is old girlfriend from 30 years ago. She lives in another state. H is living with her mother (she was like a second mother to him back in the day). Aside from first two months after the bomb, we are cordial, kind and thoughtful to one another like a good neighbor. H has not once had second thoughts about his decision. I am trying to move forward and detached but not completely. H comes to see son on Saturdays. I usually say hello then go out. Not sure what I want to do. I am still standing in that I am leaving the door open a crack. H seems very happy and does not seem to be coming towards me at all. I think he was done a long time ago. He has not filed. He seemed to be coming a little closer in Dec. or Jan., then flew back into the tunnel. And thats it in a nutshell. NUT-shell - ha!
