I have been following your thread. Your situation is very much like mine (with the exception of my house fire!). I am thinking about you. I feel your pain.
Does your employer have an Employee Assistance Program (EAP)? If so, you might want to check it out. I am able to receive six counseling sessions for free, and I had my second session today. The sessions are helping me to help me.
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