Oh, and speaking of his own house, I pissed him off about that on Sunday evening, too...
I said, "The kids are really wanting to have overnights with you, so if you want to come spend the night here on occasion I can go somewhere else. But they want more time with you." He kind of shrugged/nodded. Then I said, "It would be great if your house was ready to live in during summer break so they could get used to it before school starts again..."
He interrupted me, was all pissy, "Don't hound me, I am working on it. I don't have any time to get anything done and I am doing the best I can." I said I wasn't nagging, just saying the kids would like the chance to spend the night with him, they miss him. He said, "Oh, sorry,I thought you were hounding me."
Also Sydney was bugging me all weekend about being a flower girl when we get married again. I casually mentioned it to Dan last night, and he said "They don't say things like that to me." I just said, "Yeah, it is strange they only say it to me." He says, "Well, I don't feed into it...." of course he thinks I do! Grr
Well, literally one minute later he was still in the hall getting ready to go. I went into the kids' room to tuck them in.
Sydney says, loudly, "I want my Daddy."
I said, "Daddy isn't here."
Sydney, "Why not?"
Me: "Because he sleeps somewhere else. You know that."
Nathan: Why can't he just sleep in the basement?
Me: I don't know Nathan, that is Daddy's decision.
I walk out in the hall and he is still standing there. I said, "Did you catch that?"
He says, "Yeah, you could have just said that I had some stuff to do, you didn't have to make a point about my leaving."
Is he SERIOUS? Yes, it is all my fault, isn't it???