Yeah, he got really pissy about me hiring someone to re-grade the back yard. He came at it strictly from a financial angle though. "Hiring someone will cost thousands possibly, just let me do it..."

Then yesterday I found out we can re-up for insurance during May. It is a once-a-year deal and i thought it was August b/c they offered us insurance last August. Turns out that was only b/c I was a 'new hire'; the typical opt-in month for insurance at work is May. So I e-mailed Dan about it. Originally when we talked financials I asked to stay on his insurance until August and he thought that was a good idea.

So anyway I emailed him about it yesterday. I just said "May is the month we can choose to sign up for insurance, not August. It says we can also change it at any time for changes in marital status but I can go ahead and do it now." {We agreed back in January that he would keep the kids on his insurance b/c it is a better plan, so only I would switch}.

He replied back, "For the sake of money stay on mine for now."

So odd, he doesn't want to be married to me anymore but he wants to come re-grade my yard and keep me on his insurance. Wtf does it matter, "For the sake of money"? I would be paying my own insurance, so it would save him money. He is weird...


Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

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