Setting Boundaries for MLC Alien H

[In Limbo]

BPretty,

OMG - that sounds SOOOOO familiar! I'll have to hop over to see your full sitch. Does he know that you know the EA is still ongoing? My H is insistent his has stopped and one of his resentments is that I've "alienated him" from his best friend (OW). But the EA is still going on in some form as there are still phone calls/texts. Does your MC know H is having EA? How does your MC approach it when you want to work on the marriage and H doesn't know if he wants to? That has been a challenge for us.