lastnight i asked him if he wouldn't mind telling me what made him come home so late in the night....
he said things had been quite tense between them for a long time and it was getting worse.
he said all of a sudden, she kicked him out at 3AM, accused him of cheating on her with me (I laughed at this) and also, she was ticked off that he would not divorce me.
i asked him how he felt about her kicking him out and he said she has some major problems and was always afraid she would do something and his gut feeling is that he is relieved and said that it is different this time, is glad to be out of there.
i did tell him that my concern is that she will call and beg him to return and he said he did not think so and that she has not called him at all. i asked if she found someone else and he said he does not know.
he also said he could not leave his family by getting a divorce.
there you have it.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
