Maybe it was not one of those days for you, but you have to try to be cordial when you speak with your husband. Try to not have sarcastic anger, but instead some compassion. I know that most of the marital problem is because of him, but you must try hard to not contribute any more to it.
BTW... I recently saw a news article about the Greek islands of Symi and Icaria having a high life expectancy. Pretty basic stuff - lack of stress, good diet, exercise and some genetics. Sounds like a great place to live - if only I could speak Greek!
