So my S25 has been kicked out by his GF37. He has anger management issues, and she is a divorced mother of 2 and is not taking sh** from another man. Good for her! He does get to go see her on occasion, but she is demanding real change from him. He went to see a counselor this week, and he said it was helpful. But he wouldn't tell me anything about the session, or even if he is going back. I recommended that they go to Retrouvaille, that they could learn a lot from the weekend. He wouldn't consider it. So odd, he was here in the house the weekend my H and I went to Retrouvaille. He has seen the difference in us. But still, at this point, that knee-jerk reaction. Nope, rather wallow in my slop than take a chance on changing myself.