The man you love is still there, but buried very deep within his soul. What he's going through is something that we cannot imagine, for he's lashing out now at something that transpired when he was child and was emotionally stunted back then. Even though you cannot see the injury, it is there.
What I can offer you is this, please try to separate the behavior from the person. You dislike the behavior, but the man is still there as well. Grieve for the death of your marriage, take the time you need to pick up the pieces and understand this...you will survive and hopefully things will be less stressful after Thursday. Time will tell on that one.
We are always here to support you. I'll be thinking of you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
