Lan, I remember somewhere in your threads early on it became apparent to the observer that things boiled down to a 'communication breakdown' between you and W. She would launch a frontal attack and you would withdraw. Hopefully you are on a path to repairing that and leading the way for W to get on board with some healthy patterns of communication. Occasional Border Skirmishes with still happen. I think your patience is invaluable and now with you squarely asserting yourself ... that's a winning combination ... I wish I had your temperament.
