The adventure continues--the saga

[AFWAW]

Your commander sounds like a good man who has your best interest

I agree.

I would not recommend that you talk to your wife about the divorce...I would not tell her you talked to your CC.

I won't, I'll just ask her if she's ready to file--I kind of look at it this way, I want her to think that I'm ready to move on--I want her to wonder what's up. If she's not ready, then I'll ask her why. I will not tell her that I talked w/ my CC.

If you thought the fear of getting in trouble would stop the affair and she would consider MC for the two of you I would say do it but that is a judgement call for you to make.

I don't think it will. She's in love w/ some d#ckhead who's married.

Your goal should still be exposure

OH, IT IS! I still intend to expose but after she has agreed to and signed paperwork. As soon as it's submitted, I intend to expose. My friend still has an opportunity to find out who this guy is. If he gives me that, it would be very helpful as I will call his wife and provide the name to my CC.

On the other side...if she is willing to give you everything in the divorce to include primary custody you should consider filing

I believe she intends to do this very thing. We'll see. I think being the custodial parent would interfere w/ her new lifestyle at this point.

For now it is best you investigate and stay calm.

Believe me, I'm trying.

Thanks Hoop!