Ok I have just been reading around on other posts and I think I am starting to get it again. I'm sure I had it before but lost it! Think actions not reactions.

Me-27
H-28
M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
S 2/09

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1775859#Post1775859