The adventure continues--the saga

[AFWAW]

Ok, it didn't go as expected. My CC didn't pick up the phone and start going to town. He did however take detailed notes and asked me how I wanted to proceed. I told him my concerns and told him I wasn't exactly sure. He told me he had 2 options. He asked me if I intended to file. I said I wasn't sure at this point. He said ok, if I do this, do you think things will go your way for the divorce? Ok, I got this now. I said, I see your point. He said ok, again, are you going to file. I said, I tell you what sir, I will call the wife and tell her tonight that if she intends to file, let's get the paperwork and get this done as I'm tired of waiting. She has already stated that she would give me whatever I want. Then, once the paperwork is filed, you can press w/ pursing this. Is that acceptable. He said, because this allegation wasn't against one of his people, he had the option to do that. I threw this at him next, I said, say I have this conversation w/ my wife tonight and she says I don't want to file, I want to come home and work this out(I told him that's not likely but lets just say she did say that). He said, well, if that were to happen and you were to come in here and said I didn't understand what my wife was saying, it was a mis-understanding then I would be under no obligation to do anything. He said, my concern is for your well-being and your daughters. He said if you can get her to file and give you everything that you want to include your daughter and then you want to proceed that he thought this would be the wisest route to take. He said it sounds like you've been more than accomadating w/ your wife. So then he said, is this how you want to proceed. I said yes. So, it looks like the wife got a temporary reprieve. This absolutely makes sense to me and now I have more time to get this scumbag's name. I still want to call his wife and my CCs response was "hey, it's a free country". I told him that I felt like I couldn't trust any LtCol out there and he completely understood and was highly pissed off and wants to see this LtCol taken down as he is the same rank. WHEW!!!! I feel better and worse. So, next course of action--call the wife tonight and ask her if she's ready to file. Any thoughts???