I am new to this forum but I just wanted to give my input. I think my H is also in a MLC and he just turned 38. I don't think there is an age limit...I have read that the age can range from late 20's to 60's. The unfortunate thing is that you cannot snap him out of it. He has to do it himself. Someone told me that he got himself to this place.......only he can get himself out.
Be patient. My backing away has definately taken the pressure off of him. If that is going to actually help, I really don't know at all. But, on the flip side, my issue is I need to GAL! I am and have been way too focused on H.
