Over the Shock - Detaching and GALing 3

[Thinker]

It's slowly moving in the right direction. W was distant all day yesterday and last night, and then was very snuggly this AM.

I think she is still very scared.

I also still have a lot to work on myself.

The concepts in the beginning of PM are very good - the importance of standing on your own two feet emotionally - to quote PM "The ability to maintain a clear sense of one-self when loved ones are pressuring for conforming and sameness".

The only issue with the book so far is that it is so sexual that it is very painful to read if you are currently not being sexual with your H/S.