Starting to work my way through Schnarch's "Passionate Marriage".

He makes some very good points in his definition of "Differentiation" vs. "Fusion" This parallels and clarifies the concept of "Loving Detachment" vs Codependency, and I am finding it pretty interesting and relevant to my sitch.

It's showing me where I still need to work on myself.

Last edited by Thinker; 05/12/09 02:29 PM.

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