If your WAS would agree...

[NNP1965]

...not in bed, but a great Mother's Day! My MIL and SIL (H's sister) were here. We had a very nice visit.

Unfortunately H "could not bring himself" to share anything about this sitch with them.

I had hoped that his reluctance meant that he did not want to leave me. But he said "Oh no, I think have got to go so I can figure out if I've done the wrong thing".

I am not sure what I am supposed to be doing, I know I have not DB'd effectively. I guess all I can do is continue to go to IC and work on me. H still wants to separate, but that really is not acceptable to me, so I guess I will have to file when the time comes... which seems ludicrous to me - since I do not want a D!!!