SH....after being here for so long, all I can say is that it seems that those that reconcile or make it to piecing, are those that let go of the rope, 'say goodbye', and move on with their life.

Pursuit....seems to never work. Use this time now FOR U. And...I agree...holding on to someone who is in love with someone else....is a killer. Letting go is hardwork as well.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;