Mark, patience. You have only just begun true DB'ing for the past week. She has NOT seem enough of the new you to think of you differently. I have been at this almost a year and it still takes time. WAS see us in one certain way, intereact with us in one pattern. It takes time for them to change their actions too.

The photos are not deep. She just wanted you to look at some happy photos and are not meant to hurt. Moodiness is just how WAS' are. They are not happy people in general. If they were happy, then would not have to leave. Now that they have left, they feel they have to live with this decision but they don't like themselves. Look at her with compassion in this instance. Financials are an area where you have to fair to yourself and stand tough.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'