Chocolateyes strikes again! Good for both of you, Pup! I don't know if you really need toys, but sparking up and keeping up the sex life is crucial. My H seems to like the little nighties that I buy from Fredericks.com. There are some really sexy things with strategically placed holes that really turn him on. Maybe she would enjoy modeling one of them for you. Then there are some really cute little maids' outfits. Role playing is good. You know, she puts it on and cleans the bedroom and you come up behind her....