Oh Pup! You deserve this so much. I thought of something when I was reading Old Timer's post. A female does need that flirty fun excitment. She does need variety. And.....I hope this doesn't gross you out when I say this, but when I went into my "crazy days" with OM, the thing I liked was that I could be that "dirty girl" that Old Timer was talking about. I could never be that with my H. I don't know why I could not reach that place with him, but it was like I could not get past that proper Christian wife and mother role and well........you can prabably guess the rest.

I hope that this time will take for you two. A lot of prayers have gone up and it sounds like she is serious this time. I thought you told us that she has just lost all attraction for you! HA! Doesn't sound like it to me. That is great.

Keep the love young and fun and the sex dirty and maybe that is the magic formula for a good marriage. Well, kind of just kidding there b/c you know me, I believe we have to fit God into that formula, too. Anyway, realy happy for you two.

Love,
Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!