\:D ALRIGHT!! I knew you had it in you all the time! That is a wonderful move....to get a DB counselor. I have read several posts from those who only had one or more sessions and felt a world of difference.

I am proud of you. I knew you were not a quitter! You do have what it takes and yes, I understand those low points. Sometimes we do have to have a wake-up call to get up and dust off and go at it again.

Your M is a valuable union and I believe you will work hard to do what you need to do to control your anger and to try to get past her EA. Ask the DB coach how to do that and how you are to stop from throwing that in your W's face. Every time you get mad at her and bring up the EA, you lose the ground that has been gained. Try to remember that. What happened can't be undone and as I said before....it could get worse if she is continually pushed in the wrong direction.

But, you know what? I have seen a few times when things could take a big turn around. I don't say that to "set you up" for disappointment, but hopefully to encourage you to hang in there.

Take care,
Sandi


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!