Hm, I didn't realize I was trying to date anyone! As far as STBX, I don't spend time thinking about her at all. We do what we do and that's that. I have no romantic fantasies about her nor do I have any plans of pursuing a R with her. Can we be friends, who knows. I do know that my family works better when her and I get along. That is what matters most. BTW, I'm ditching the Hot Yoga nights with her because my body just can't take it! OT, are you thinking I'm trying to date my woman friend? Not so, we've been friends for 15 years, worked together for 10. We're just friends and we're both clear on that!
