Silver we are already divorced so she is his gf instead of ow, I am just in the habit of typing ow. He follows her around like a puppy and defends her to the core. He gets her what she wants and has started letting her answer his phone. He never didnt answer his on phone. I think he is so afraid she will not trust him, so he just lets her answer it. To me that shows he knows he knows he cant be trusted and is trying to prove otherwise to her. I never answered his phone unless he was in the shower or something. Not that he wouldnt let me although their were times I would look through his phone and he would get mad....wonder why, I was blind I guess. He did this with me sometimes. He would get a call and automatically show or tell me who it was. Does that show quilt to you?