Still getting nowhere fast....

[lost-n-Iowa]

Thanks forthe responses. I really need that upward assurance that I am not crazy. LOL!!!

My H texted me today and was still saying the same things of going to a MC and dropping the divorce. I DID NOT ANSWER!!! I am so proud of myself. Since I did not answer him then he started texting asking me a bunch of questions about what i did on a certain night that I went out after I had filed the papers but before he had been served the papers. I still did not answer him and his texts continued and you could tell he was was getting more and more upset. I continued to read them but never texted back. He finally texted one last one that said he had to go back to work and tht he would call me later.

I WILL have will power tonight and not answer the text and the calls from him. I can do this. I will be contacting a MC for myself. I was thinking about going to the same one that he is going to but to do it on my own time and but not with him so that the MC will hear both sides and will be able to better help me though this. Also that the MC can see what I am dealing with in my H and that maybe the MC can give me better advice than if I go to an IC that only hears my side of it.

I feel better today that I have stood up for myself and I am trying set my own path.

Thanks for stopping by Bridgestone and Breakaway. I am really glad that you are here for me. I don't feel so alone in this. I do understand that I will get in trouble if I continue to talk to him. I am trying hard to stop.