Ok guys lets not get into a religion discussion because they are not pretty. Getting back to my sitch...;) I do believe that my xh is lost in love, lust or something. My son asked him to borrow 30 to buy me a mothers day gift, (which he didnt have to do but he wanted to), and my xh told him to come get it Sunday morning no problem. My son went Sunday but they were not home so my son called him Sunday evening and my xh told him he "didnt have the money". Now I find it hard to believe since he got paid 6 days ago. Why would he tell son that morning yes and then that evening no. I think the gf had something to do with this. I could be wrong but he switched his mind awful quick. He told son he didnt get paid until Thurs., when in fact he just got paid a few days ago. What is your all's take on this. Not that it matters for me, I hate that son worked up enough courage to ask only to be told yes and then NO. My son is afraid to ask him anything in fear of abandment, I believe. So it took courage for him to ask and he got disappointed. He said he immediately told his dad "thats ok forget it", in a nice tone. My aunt called me today and said son asked her for money. It just breaks my heart. He is so caught up with this woman. I have never seen him act so crazy. He is spending every dime he can get on her. Have any of you experienced this with your x's ow? Is this normal for them to go "crazy" over the other person?
Guys I cant help but ask questions, it is something new everyday. I am going on with my life. I am starting to enjoy life again. I am happy most days. I think I am doing good for being 7 months into this mess. You all may not think so, beacause when I post I only talk about xh, but I have a life, really I do. When I find the time, I am going to try and find a counselor.
