Yep W does seem to want to talk, so I am letting her go at it slowly. On the falling a sleep we both mentioned that if we are up and about doing things then she stays awake. it's just when we are relaxed that she falls a sleep, so we are thinking of ways round it.
On the computer front she did mention in the past that she thought I spent too much time on it, I half think, she thinks I have an on line gf. Anyway it was a productive day so I'll keep moving it in that direction.