While it is a long shot, the only chance I will have is if the affair is over. I don't see another way to end it. Do you? According to my wife, she "loves" him and doesn't want to choose. Hell, for that matter, she doesn't care if he cheats on her--she still loves him.
I think it is a longer shot to expect her to get over you ruining her career than for her to get over the "chemical rush" she is feeling from the affair. She's in MLC, and it takes time to run it's course.
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I also want the affair to end for two reasons. The first one being vindicitive in that I want her to suffer as I have w/ a broken heart and two, hopefully it will wake her up.
Isn't there another way you can expose the affair without going through channels? What about letting the OM wife know? Doesn't she have a right to know before she hears it through channels?
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At this point though, I think I have more chance of winning the lotto and I don't play.
I honestly think you have zero chance if you expose her to her command. You cannot unring this bell once it has tolled.
