thanks for the advice - the problem with my husband is that nothing works, no game playing works. if i distance myself, if i dont distance myself, no difference in his reaction. it is so annoying!
i have been leaving him alone, if he is in his office, i dont bother going in, i just go to bed.
i feel sorta stuck in terms of my own behavior. i cant totally go dark and not talk because we have to talk and deal with the store on a daily basis.
and i dont want to talk too much, because honestly, it would be nice if he came to me looking to chit chat.
im stuck.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09