thanks for the advice - the problem with my husband is that nothing works, no game playing works. if i distance myself, if i dont distance myself, no difference in his reaction. it is so annoying!

i have been leaving him alone, if he is in his office, i dont bother going in, i just go to bed.

i feel sorta stuck in terms of my own behavior. i cant totally go dark and not talk because we have to talk and deal with the store on a daily basis.

and i dont want to talk too much, because honestly, it would be nice if he came to me looking to chit chat.

im stuck.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09