Hey, I asked H the same question. He says that he told her that he is coming home and that she needs to find a place for her and the kids. But I am skeptical - I would need proof. Also because I've been where she is right now I think she should be able to tell that H is pulling away, I see it in his whole demeanor. The only little proof I have is that she has become uncomfortable with her situation with H because it seems that my name is constantly coming up and they are arguing about me a lot. But I don't want to really be a part of their ending. I want it to just end. So with that I actually try not to call H when I think he may he with her. I don't want to be the "OW". I want to be forgotten by her - otherwise she will fixate on me and I really feel she is a little off.

By the way, funny thing is that in the family we called her for a while "Amy Fisher #2", even H did. It was our little laugh. Don't know how he really ended up back with Amy Fisher #2 though.