i have a question - does the ow know your husband is still very involved with you and wants to come home?
dont beat yourself up for not being able to resist him. i understand what u are saying when u dont want to do anything while he is still involved with ow, i have been there. however, its also good to keep the connection between the 2 of u. i guess it depends on how we look at it.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09