A,
I'm very, very sorry that things turned out the way they did. But, you needed to do something to protect yourself, assets and your future.

I agree w/you...at some point in time, you both will meet again and that's when you both will be able to sit down and have a conversation. The conversation may not be what you want to hear, but it will be a conversation that will allow you to see into his soul.

For now, take care of yourself.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.